Agape Circle

“Where two or three are gathered in my Name, I am in their midst.”

- Jesus of Nazareth
(Matthew 18:20)


Welcome to the website for the Agape Circle research project!

The purpose of this research project is to see if people who participate in a faith-based small fellowship group experience greater social and spiritual support and more compassion toward others.

Currently over 150 people have begun to actively participate in more than 30 Agape Circles across the United States, including the following locations: Tacoma, WA, Seattle, WA, Shoreline, WA, Sacramento, CA, San Francisco, CA, Los Angeles, CA, Redondo Beach, CA, Watkinsville, GA, Birmingham, AL, Greenville, SC, Randolph, NJ, Hunterdon County, NJ, Hempstead, NY, Cranston, RI, Mansfield, MA, Brookline, MA, Weston, MA,  Dover, NH, Lancaster, PA, Broomall, PA, Akron, OH, Columbus, OH, Racine, WI, Palos Hills, IL, Swansea, IL, and St. Louis, MO!

Each Agape Circle consists of approximately five to seven people, ages 21 to 65, who are active members of the Greek Orthodox Church. One member of each Circle also functions as the Facilitator and is approved by the parish priest. Each Circle is meeting for about two hours once a week for seven weeks at someone’s home or at the Church.

These meetings follow a special curriculum emphasizing themes of fellowship and love. This curriculum includes readings from the Bible and Christian wisdom literature, questions fo personal reflection, group discussion, interactive activities, prayer and a hymn. Participants also commit to praying for each other between meetings.

It is anticipated that those who participate will develop meaningful, Christ-centered relationships with each other and become more compassionate toward others whom they encounter in their daily lives.

 

Koinonia and Agape

Purpose of the Agape Circle: Fellowship (Koinonia) and Love (Agape):

The Agape Circle is intended to provide a safe place for people to develop in fellowship and love. This will be measured through three brief, anonymous surveys that participants will fill out:

(1) seven weeks before the program begins;
(2) a day before the first meeting; and
(3) within two days after the last meeting.

These surveys will provide the primary data for research.

Possible Benefits of Participation:


It is anticipated that people who participate in the Agape Circle, will:

• give and receive social and spiritual support
• build close, personal relationships
• become more sensitive about what other people feel
• become aware of others’ needs and challenges
• see themselves through the eyes of others
• explore and clarify personal values and attitudes
• practice the habit of giving positive reinforcement
(compliments, praise, encouragement)
• contribute to enriching the lives of others
• experience the acceptance and love of others
• increase "emotional intelligence"
• see how God works in the lives of others
• improve listening skills
• practice loving and being loved
• grow in faith and love for God

These are anticipated benefits. However, this is an experiment and the results may be very different. Please help us find out!

Population and Selection Criteria:

For the purposes of research, participation in this project is limited to members of the Greek Orthodox Church who are regular participants in the weekly Divine Liturgy and who are from 21 to 65 years of age.

Qualified participants will also be people who:

• are able to commit to attending all seven meetings and completing the three surveys

• desire to know others and be known by others more deeply

• are willing to engage with other people on a heart level

• are willing to tell the truth about themselves

• are willing to listen with compassion and care to others

• are willing to lovingly challenge others to grow, and to be similarly challenged

• want to grow spiritually

• want to help others grow in faith and love

• will pray for the other members between meetings

If there is more than one Agape Circle in a given parish, spouses, relatives and close friends may prefer to join separate groups.

What the Agape Circle Is Not:


The Agape Circle is not a substitute for professional counseling. Persons who are dealing with clinical issues such as depression, major anxiety, panic attacks, eating disorders, addictions, marital crises, etc. are advised to seek professional treatment from a qualified mental health clinician. If such therapy is in place, participation in the Agape Circle may be appropriate for persons confronting mental health challenges.

The Agape Circle is also not a substitute for the sacrament of confession. Self-understanding arising from participating in the Agape Circle may, however, inspire one to participate in the sacrament of confession. While confidentiality is strongly encouraged, it cannot be guaranteed in the Agape Circle as it is in the sacrament of confession. Participants should use discretion when self-disclosing in the Agape Circle (see Confidentiality below).

Questionnaires:


Data for addressing the research questions will be obtained through completing a survey at three points:

First, seven weeks before beginning the Agape Circle.
Second, one to two days before the first Agape Circle meeting.
Third, within two days following the seventh and final Agape Circle meeting.

It is anticipated that these surveys will require an average of 25 minutes to complete. They may be completed online at www.surveymonkey.com (see link on this website) and submitted electronically. If a participant does not have access to the Internet and needs to receive hard copies of the surveys by mail, these may be provided upon request.

If you would like to participate in an Agape Circle, please contact Deacon Markos at

coordinator@agapecircle.com.

E U C H A R I S T O

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another – and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”

- Apostle Paul
(Hebrews 10: 24-25)

 


Agape Circle Coordinator's Message

Thank you for visiting the Agape Circle web site!

My name is Markos Nickolas. I am a 1995 graduate of Holy Cross Greek Orthodox School of Theology and a deacon in the Greek Archdiocese. Currently, I work as the Hospital Ministry Field Education instructor at Holy Cross and as adjunct professor in the Human Development Department at Hellenic College.

In the final stages of my doctoral degree in Pastoral Psychology at Boston University. I am studying how participating in faith-based small fellowship groups affects an individual’s level of perceived social support and compassion toward others.

If you would like to participate in an Agape Circle or desire further information about this project, please contact me by email at coordinator@agapecircle.com or by voice mail at (617) 850-1274.

Eucharisto!

Deacon Markos

Contact: Coordinator@AgapeCircle.com

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Click on "more" above for more information on:

• TERMS OF AC
• Participation policy
• Meeting logistics
• Meeting format
• The Agape Circle agreement...
• Confidentiality

• ROLES
• AC Facilitator
• Time-keeper
• Readers

• A CONTEMPLATIVE ATMOSPHERE OF AGAPE

• STRUCTURED CONTEMPLATIVE DIALOGUE ("SPEAKING TRUTH IN LOVE")
• Self-disclosure
• Moments of silence
• Listening
• Responding

• INTERACTIVE EXERCISES

• OVERALL PURPOSE: To Practice Loving God and neighbor as self

• STAGES OF GROUP EVOLUTION


“[E]ncourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” - Apostle Paul (1 Thessolonians 5:11)


If you would like to participate in the Agape Circle research project, please print out the appropriate consent form below (one is for participants and the other is for participants who are also facilitators), read it, sign it and fax it to 617-850-1457 (no cover sheet necessary) or mail it to Deacon Markos Nickolas 50 Goddard Avenue Brookline, MA 02445. Thank you! 

Consent_Form_(Participants).pdf (.PDF format)
Consent_Form_(Facilitators).pdf (.PDF format)



One_Anothering Verses of the NT (.PDF format)
AC_Prayers.doc (.DOC format)


AgapeCircleSong.mp3 (.MP3 format)
AgapeCircleSong-1.pdf (.PDF format)


You can help...

If you feel inspired to financially support this research project & ministry, you may do so by contacting Deacon Markos Nickolas at 50 Goddard Avenue, Brookline, MA   02445.



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